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The Abusive Personality | Understanding Domestic Violence and Domestic Abuse

My story of an abusive personality. I wondered what was wrong with me. I couldn’t do anything right. My husband was always angry at me for one reason or another... but it all changed.

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Abusive Fathers | The Abused Teen and Child - Signs of Domestic Abuse

It may seem strange not to know if our fathers are abusive fathers. It may seem strange to others that you don’t know, but it’s not strange at all...

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The Courage to Heal from Abuse: 60 Days to a New You! PDF

Are you ready to have the courage to heal from abuse? Have you felt you don't really know who you are? Are you ready to find out who the real you is? I have created this eBook/pdf for you to heal!

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What a Controlling Spouse Won't Tell You | Recognizing Signs of an Abusive M

Sometimes it’s hard to know when we are married to a controlling spouse. The signs of the abusive man aren’t really clear... In this article you'll find the truth about why a controlling spouse...

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Personal Development Plan: Mastering Lasting Change - Control Over Your Future

The Personal Development Plan: Three astonishing books that changes lives using neuro-scientific techniques – conquering victim and poverty mindsets...For anyone associated with Domestic Abuse.

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Anxiety Self Help: End Panic Attacks & Anxiety Attacks w/ PanicAway Easily!!!

Anxiety Self Help: END Panic and Anxiety Attacks now! Panic Away using the 21-7 Technique™. The technique teaches how to stop a panic attack in 21 seconds flat & reduce general anxiety in less than 7

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Self Help Ebooks: Mastering Lasting Change -- Taking Total Control

Self Help Ebooks: Mastering Lasting Change: Take Immediate Control Over Your Physical, Emotional, Mental, and Financial Future! Neuro-Scientific techniques for maximum impact. “A life-changing book!”

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Life after Verbal Abuse

I've been in a verbally relationship for 10 years and just got out after reading The verbally relationship by Patricia Evans. I saw my partner and I in

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My gifts to you...

Gifts for those who donated...

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Donate to His Love Heals: God Promises a 30-60-90 fold Return!

Donate to the Kingdom of God... it has the greatest investment opportunities known to man. You invest and are guaranteed a 30-60-100 fold return.

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Financial Help - I am in serious trouble

After I graduated from college I took a job abroad, and went abroad basically penniless and broke. I had to work very hard and for long hours, often times

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Financial Help - I am in serious trouble

After I graduated from college I took a job abroad, and went abroad basically penniless and broke. I had to work very hard and for long hours, often times

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I left and had to come back.

Please help me. He threw me and our daughter out about 2 months ago in an abusive and drunken rage. I relied on friends for a place to stay for a while.

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Women Abused in Public | Men Abusing Women in Public with Words and Gestures

I don’t think there is anything more humiliating than seeing women abused in public. There right in front of a crowd, your spouse or significant other abuses you in public so all will hear and see.

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Financial Help

I am so behind on all my bills I can't find a job, my house in forclosure, they came to reposes my car yesterday and I feel like the walls are closing

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Unite me back with my love and bless me with my marriage with him

Please GOD unite me back with my love and bless me with my marriage to him ,with our parents blessings and happiness before the end of 2012. Please help

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NEED HELP!!!

I am a 32 year old female. I was raped 12 years ago. I was in a domestic abuse and spousal rape for six years after that. And 4 years ago I was raped again

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Eating disorder

Hello, I am just asking for prayer. I am trying to get into an eating disorder treatment facility and I really need my insurance to say yes and pay for

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Signs of an Abusive Relationship -- TOP 10 Questions to Ask Victims of Abuse

1.Does your partner have a bad temper?
2.Do you live in fear of your partner?
3.Does it feel like you have to walk on “egg shells” at times so he/she will not explode?
4.Has your partner threatened to harm you, the children, pets, or anything else?
5.Is your partner violent toward you or the children?
6.Has your partner ever threatened to kill you?
7.Has your partner ever physically hurt you?
8.Has your partner ever made a gesture of harm toward you? For example: put hands around your neck, or imitated holding a knife or gun?
9.Do you fear going home?
10.Is your partner unpredictable?

If you are experiencing any of these, we are here to help.

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Effects of Child Abuse | The Devastating Effects of Toxic Relationships & Abuse

Effects of Child Abuse: Children who have witnessed the abusive parents’ violence in their homes have significant emotional behaviors such as anxiety, excessive crying, anger, psychosomatic disorders.

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What is Verbal Abuse? And What Does a Verbally Abusive Relionship Look Like?

What is Verbal Abuse?

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What is Emotional Abuse? Abused Wives in an Emotionally Abusive Relationship

What is Emotional Abuse? When most think of “abuse” they think of physical abuse: hitting, stabbing, breaking bones, kicking etc., but there are more types of abuse that are equally destructive.

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Toxic Relationships | What is a Toxic Relationship and Are YOU In One?

When you are in toxic relationships, the words, the hatred, the torment that comes from the abuser destroys a victim. Like toxic waste, verbal abuse, mental abuse, sexual abuse, and physical abuse..

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Signs of an Abusive Man | Controlling Spouses and the Abusive Husbands

You are here because you are wondering if the behaviors you see in a man you are with are actual signs of an abusive man. Discovering you are with an abuser, controlling spouse or abusive husbands...

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The Abusive Marriage | Stories of 3 Abused Wives and Their Controlling Husband

It’s hard to know when a woman is in an abusive marriage or with a controlling husband because everything appears to be wonderful on the outside. But behind the four walls violence is happening.

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The Abused Wife | The Secret Lives of Abused Wives

The Abused Wife: For Mary who took the vows for better or worse… until death do us part never thought she’d be agreeing that abuse was involved. Her life was in danger but she had no one to help...

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PTSD Symptoms | Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (P.T.S.D. or P.T.S.S)

When I left my ex-husband I experienced PTSD Symptoms, although my psychologist said I was experiencing them even throughout the marriage, I dissociated from feeling any pain and trauma during...

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Mentally Abusive Relationships and Verbally Abusive Relationships Help

What you need to know about: Mentally Abusive Relationships. When a spouse or significant other desires to control their victim they speak in tones, give looks or gestures, or threatening the victim.

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Marital Abuse and Their Secrets | The Lies, Deceit, and Terror Abused Wives Face

Melinda’s Life of Terror with Marital Abuse: Monday afternoon I met with a woman at a secret location where, if she was found by her husband, he would think she was working. This was her life...

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How Abused Wives Leave Abusive Husbands | How to Leave Your Husband

For abused wives to leave abusive relationships it is always best to have a plan, without one it can put them into dangerous situations. If you are ready to leave, start with the below to help you.

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Escaping from Economic Abuse: Help with Financial Abuse & Creative Ways to Save

Economic Abuse and Financial Abuse can be very subtle -- telling you what you can and cannot buy or requiring you give over all your money and bank accounts. At no point does anyone have the right..

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Adult Children of Abusive Parents | Adults Abused as Children

Adult children of abusive parents can be one of the hardest things to face. As adults we look back at our lives and we notice that things are different for us then for our friends and even siblings.

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Abusive Words | Emotionally Abusive Relationships | Vile Words Abusive Men Say

Abusive Words and how they damage: I felt like a target being hit with poisonous darts flying at me. Every time he spoke to me it made me feel even more worthless than I already was,” Helena

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Abusive Parents and Verbal Abuse | Children Abused in Public

About helping abusive parents with verbal abuse. How to help when you see a child being verbally abused.

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where are the support groups located?

where are the support groups located

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Prayer for Healing | Enjoy a FREE Book | Hope for Victims of Abuse

Prayer for Healing: If you are experiencing hopelessness from the pain of abuse, don’t wait, this book will bring you comfort, God’s comfort through the prayers that healed me.

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Last night was my last night being abused but I have no support

After 3 years in a physical & emotional abusive relationship I finally got the courage to call the police & file charges against my abuser after yer another

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Hurt No More! A Journey of Healing from Abuse

In Hurt No More! A Journey of Healing from Abuse, Kelly Ann Evers reaches out to abused and battered women with her own compelling and inspirational story. After escaping from her abusive husband…

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I am in an abusive relationship, I want to leave but have no where to go

I have been in an abusive relationship with my children's father for 8 years. At first he wasn't so violent & mean but over the past few years it has

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What is Wrong with Me? How Have You Survived Domestic Violence and the Loss?

It's been a couple of years since I left my husband. He was very violence and my life was a mess with him. Now I have left and I can't get my life together.

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Memory loss/job

oh lord, please heal my memory loss problem which i have for last three years, please bless me with the right job , oh lord i am without job for last 3

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Feeling very alone after separation

I am constantly searching online for domestic abuse help and liked your site so thought I'd reach out. I am physically separated from my husband of three

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Domestic Violence Help Questions | How Can I Help You?

Hello and Welcome,I wonder many times how victims of domestic violence and domestic abuse cry out for help but they are not heard. I wonder what they are crying out for. I knew my pain, (see my testimony here) I know what I needed back then, but I am looking for what you need, what you are looking for.

Would you be willing to share with me what you are going through? What your pain is and what your needs are?

My goal is to help you every possible way.

Could you share your experience? Could you help me, by letting me know what your needs are?

Thank you so much,

Kelly Ann Evers,
Founder of His Love Heals, Domestic Violence Help

Click on the below link and it will lead you to a form to fill out. There I can start working on those answers!

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Prayers for Healing: A Touch of A Fathers Love

***A SNEAK PEEK taken from
Hurt No More! A Journey of Healing From Abuse

A Father’s Love



Abba Father, Daddy, I pray that You will open my heart and flood me with the knowledge of You and Your goodness, Your Fatherly protection, and Your Fatherly love. Reveal to me, deep within my spirit, the truth of who You are.

Let me see You as a proud Daddy sitting in the bleachers, announcing “that is My child.” Lord, let me see You as my proud Daddy running next to me, cheering me on, and encouraging me to finish my race, shouting, “You can do it!” And Daddy, let me experience in greater measure, Your undying love for me today.

God’s Promises to Me

For all who are led by the Spirit of God are children of God. So you should not be like cowering, fearful slaves. You should behave instead like God’s very own children, adopted into His family–calling Him “Father, dear Father.” For His Holy Spirit speaks to us deep in our hearts and tells us that we are God’s children.Romans 8:14-16 (NLT)

For God so loved the world that He gave His only Son, so that everyone who believes in Him will not perish but have eternal life.John 3:16 (NLT)

The Father Himself loves you dearly because you love Me and believe that I came from God.John 16:27 (NLT)

Father to the fatherless.Psalm 68:5 (NLT)

Please CLICK BELOW to Order Your Book, so you can begin your healing,
Kelly

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Abused Wives: Don’t Let the Devil Stop You!

Abused Wives:
Don’t Let the Devil Stop You!

Bible Verse for The Day on 1 Thessalonians 2:18



Regardless of the circumstances, regardless of the pressure, regardless of the delays, don’t let the devil stop your progress.

When you are in an abusive marriage, I think the abused wives have more difficultly, because the abuser convinces the woman she is at fault.

The thing is, you know God has spoken to you, His word has resounded in your mind over and over. You dream about it, you think about it, you long for it… but every time you try to move forward something thwarts your progress.

That thwarting is the devil. The devil knows if he lets up on you, you will do powerful things for the Kingdom of God.

1 Thessalonians 2:18 is a powerful reminder of Satan stopping Paul from visiting the Thessalonians. It says, "Yes, we wanted to come to you. I, Paul, tried more than once to come, but Satan stopped us (ESV)."

Do you feel you are unable to make progress on your plans? Did you know that Satan will do whatever it takes to stop you from moving forward?

But, as Paul, we need to continue to fight through without giving up. What amazes me about Paul is he doesn’t whine and cry or gives up, he presses through. He doesn’t resign himself to defeat, he looks for another way to succeed.

When God gives us a dream, He gives us everything we need to succeed – even when it doesn’t look like we will succeed.

Like Paul, let’s decide to not give up, let’s choose to be determined to move forward every day.

The Word tells us to walk by faith not by site. It’s not easy. Not easy at all. When we see our life spiraling down, our money running out, not having a job, marriage failing, being abused wives, kids making poor choices, it’s hard to stay focused on the dream.

That is why we say to the devil: NO! You will not win, I AM more than a conquer. I may not see God’s plan but I am digging my heels and I WILL NOT give up!

If the devil is blocking you from moving forward, ask the Holy Spirit to show you another route! He not only wants you to get you where you need to go but He wants you to succeed more than you do!

Don’t give up, you’re worth it!
Kelly Ann Evers

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Needing to Emotionally Detach from the Effects of My Daughter's DV

My daughter left her abusive husband after 5 years where I was basically estranged from her. She came sobbing back into my life, almost died from passing

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Considering Leaving, But Really Scared

I'm a 23 year old female who is disabled by severe anxiety disorders to the point where I haven't ever been able to get a job or a license. I have and

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Starting Life Over … when you don’t know what to do | FREE Masters Courses

Starting life over is not easy. It’s actually terrifying. What if I can’t make it? What if he stops me? What if I can’t support my kids? What if he takes my kids from me? There are...

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