Domestic Violence Help, Hope, and Healing for Abused Women


Domestic Violence Help, Hope, and Healing for Abused Women

Domestic abuse and domestic violence are not okay. It shouldn’t happen to anyone. Ever! Unfortunately, it happens far too often. Whether you’re a victim, a friend, family member, or co-worker of a victim, we are here to help you understand domestic abuse and domestic violence. The more you know about it, the easier it will be to actively seek assistance for yourself or people you care about.

His Love Heals, Domestic Violence Help™ is an international organization headquartered in Southern California that is based on biblical principles. His Love Heals, Domestic Violence Help™ provides resources to 200 countries and in 80 languages to women, pastors, community leaders, and service organizations. Its mission is to bring healing, help, and hope to battered, abused, and hurting women by empowering, encouraging, and inspiring them to succeed.

We are Here to Help -- You're not alone!

We provide a wealth of resources and programs to help victims, family, friends, with all domestic violence issues.
  • Safety planning
  • Resource Materials
  • Referrals to Community Organizations
  • 500 Domestic Violence Shelters in the US
  • International Domestic Abuse Help in 200 Countries
  • Domestic Violence Resources in 80 Languages
  • Crisis Planning
  • Domestic Violence Information
  • Referrals
  • Confidential Online or One on One Support
  • One Step at a Time Program
  • Pastoral Training
  • Living with a Batterer
  • Escape Plans
  • Where to Get Help
  • Emergency Pet Shelters
  • Legal Pet Aid
  • Helpful Ideas and Solutions While Living with an Abuser
  • How to Leave an Abuser
  • Understanding Domestic Violence and Abuse
  • How Friends and Family Can Help
  • Biblical Understanding to Domestic Violence
  • Healing from domestic Violence and Domestic Abuse
  • Miracle Prayer
  • Women's Support Groups
  • And so much more!

His Love Heals, Domestic Violence Help™ is affiliated with:

  • Food Programs
  • Counselors
  • Employment Resources
  • Financial Aid Programs
  • Legal Aid
  • Free Legal Advice
  • Low-cost Attorneys
  • Batterer Treatment Programs
  • Human Services
  • Catholic Charities
  • Crisis Pregnancy Centers
  • We have that, and so much more!

It’s Time to Expect More from Life!

We know that life with an abuser can be difficult (to say the least), but that doesn’t mean your dreams and hope for the future has to be crushed. On the contrary! With our resources, we have seen 1000’s of women begin to hope again – knowing God has a good plan and a good future created just for them. We know it hasn’t been easy, but now is your time to see your bright future waiting for you. It’s time to:

  • Believe life will be good for you.
  • See your lost dreams resurrected.
  • To have the courage to stand strong.
  • Want to live again.
  • Smile and laugh again.
  • Have confidence in tough times.
  • Know you're not alone.
  • Know that if God believes in you, then you can believe in yourself!
  • To find friends who have situations similar to yours.
  • And to learn, grow, and take steps towards freedom.

Our Promise to You

Maybe for the first time in your life you are going to have someone partnering with you, you may be experiencing fear and anxiety because you have had friends and family give up on you, or you may have given up on yourself. Regardless of your past situations, "His Love Heals, Domestic Violence Help™" promises that:

  • We don’t give up.
  • We don’t get tired of you.
  • We don’t judge because you continue to go back to your abuser.
  • We don’t think you have too much drama.
  • We are not afraid of your situation.
  • We are in it for the long haul.

We want to partner with you, because we know what it's like living with an abuser, we know what it's like trying to leave the abuser, and we know what it's like to return to the abuser - and do it all over again. As you invest in yourself with our domestic violence help, tools, and resources – you will be well on your way to healing and freedom.


In this website you are going to find a wealth of domestic violence help, so keep coming back, we are always adding new resources to help you.



***If you are being stalked by your abuser, then PLEASE find a safe computer to continue your research.

Where Do I Begin?

There is so much for you to learn, so don't forget to bookmark this page. Please use the resources below or use the navigation bar above to begin your journey.





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Kelly Ann Evers, founder of His Love Heals, Domestic Violence Help.  Healing victims of abuse heal from abusive relationships -- everyday!

Hi, I'm Kelly.

I have created this website to share tips, ideas, and planning tools for all your domestic abuse needs. Each page gives you the courage to make sound choices for your future.

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