Will I Ever Be Normal???

by Anonymous
(Anonymous )

I don't like myself very much. I am too needy, too helpless, and too weepy. All I want is to be normal like everyone else. I have trouble making friends and once I have them, they want to get away from me very fast.

I look around and I don't see anyone else like this, why am I?

I left my husband 1.5 years ago and I thought I'd have a perfect life. I thought I would finally have friends and I would be loved, but it's the opposite. What do I do?

Anonymous

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Life Will Get Better
by: Kelly Ann Evers

My heart ached when I read your post. I want you to know that life will get better. I think my first 4 or 5 years I felt the same way after I left my abuser.

Probably about 3 years after I left him, I started thinking about "what I was thinking about" and I realized that I was so focused on comments like: will I ever be normal, I hate this life, why God, why am I so stupid, I want to be like so and so... What I realized is that the more I focused on what I wasn't the further I got away from what I wanted to be. I hope that made sense.

In order to go forward (or be normal), you need to focus on your good, and focus on what God thinks about you, and who God created you to be.

After a couple of years of those mentioned above I began to see myself as a wonderful person. I saw myself who God created me to be. I saw myself as God sees me. It was wonderful. It was actually exciting because when I saw myself like that, others started to see me like that. My life changed. I for the first time, like myself. I saw that my life was good and I had a purpose.

Go to www.domestic-violence-help.org/encouraging-bible-verses.html and www.domestic-violence-help.org/bible-verses-for-encouragement.html OR go to the NAVAGATION bar to the left and click on ENCOURAGEMENT or THE DAILY WORD for more help on encouraging yourself. You are going to find that life will get better.
Take some of the encouraging words and speak it out daily. Do it for 6 weeks and watch and see how life will get better!
I Too Want to Be Normal
by: Anonymous

I can relate to what your saying, as I too am going through some what of the same situation.
I too have trouble making friends and once I have them, they don't last, they don't stay.

I thought I was the only one like this. Until I read your comment. I thought and think something is wrong with me.

I left my husband 5 years ago and I thought I'd be ok, better. I too, thought I would finally have friends and I would be loved, but I find my self alone and isolated.
Did you find any kind of help?

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